Podcast Episodes

Jan. 27, 2022

Ep 208 - The Gift of Fear

Controlling and learning about fear and anxiety has been the topic the last couple weeks with Tim Hawk, Tim, and Steve. We continue this week with these topics and more: Fear is a gift given to us (trust your instinct) Exercise, meditation, nutrition Control your breath Build relationships
Ep 208 - The Gift of Fear
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Ep 208 - The Gift of Fear
Jan. 20, 2022

Ep 207 - Understand Fear and Anxiety So They Don't Control You

Last week Tim Hawk, Tim, and Steve discussed fear. On this episode, they dive deeper into understanding anxiety (especially through the pandemic). You’ll hear things you can do to eliminate both fear and anxiety — or least control them — including: Take small acts of bravery (“bridging”) Get to know your anxiety — learn as much as you can Change your perception — at minimum confirm your perception is truthful
Ep 207 - Understand Fear and Anxiety So They Don't Control You
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Ep 207 - Understand Fear and Anxiety So They Don't Control You
Jan. 13, 2022

Ep 206 - Mad, Glad, Sad, and Afraid

Tim Hawk — with a background in psychology — joins Tim and Steve to discuss being afraid. Fear is a primary emotion we all experience at times, in different ways and at different levels. What can we learn from fear? How can we control it? Can it be good? Hear that and more.
Ep 206 - Mad, Glad, Sad, and Afraid
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Ep 206 - Mad, Glad, Sad, and Afraid
Jan. 6, 2022

Ep 205 - The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life

Tom Parker is on to talk about ikigai — the Japanese concept of finding purpose in your life. Ikigai • 生き甲斐 • A reason for being
Ep 205 - The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life
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Ep 205 - The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life
Dec. 30, 2021

Ep 204 - Build Your Inner Strength for 2022

Enough fear already. We’ve grown weak and it’s long past time to get our inner strength back. If you feel weak and afraid — you must replace that with hope and courage. If you feel brave and strong — you must become even stronger for others, especially children who are having an even tougher time making sense of the world right now. Our martial arts systems are reality based. We know reality. We also know fear. And we know that if you allow fear to run rampant, aggression sets in. With aggres...
Ep 204 - Build Your Inner Strength for 2022
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Ep 204 - Build Your Inner Strength for 2022
Dec. 23, 2021

Ep 203 - Mushin, No Thinking or Feeling, Just Being

Any boxer, martial artist, or any kind of athlete knows what it's like to be in the "zone" — where you're not thinking about the past, the future, or anything else — you're just in the moment. That's mushin. You might have experienced this while mowing the lawn, painting, or playing a musical instrument (like Eric Mintel talked about on last week's show). Mushin in Japanese is a mental state. Zen and Daoist practitioners attempt to reach this mental state during everyday activities. We all...
Ep 203 - Mushin, No Thinking or Feeling, Just Being
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Ep 203 - Mushin, No Thinking or Feeling, Just Being
Dec. 16, 2021

Ep 202 - Band of Brothers

Eric Mintel joins us for part 2 of our conversation. (Check out last week’s show, where we spoke about the universal rhythm and cadence in music, martial arts, and all things in life.) Find mentors that live (or have lived) the lifestyle you want (Eric credits Dave Brubeck) Prioritize your time and focus your attention (Eric credits Bruce Lee) Surround yourself with like-minded people
Ep 202 - Band of Brothers
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Ep 202 - Band of Brothers
Dec. 9, 2021

Ep 201 - Music to Our Ears

We’ve talked extensively about the desired balance between the "crash" and the "flow.” Homeostasis wants to occur. It can be seen all through nature, systems, structures, and relationships between all kinds of things. There’s a universal rhythm and cadence that can be found. Just by realizing that, we’re better able to navigate and “dance” through life. Jazz music might be one of the finest examples of that crash and flow at play. When a song is expertly composed and performed, we are natural...
Ep 201 - Music to Our Ears
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Ep 201 - Music to Our Ears
Dec. 2, 2021

Ep 200 - Attack Life, Not Others — What It Means To You

It’s our 200th episode! Tim and Steve talk about what Attack Life, Not Others means to them. We have an all-star cast of special guests — including Master Tim Hawk, Dr Jarrod Spencer, Chelsea Hoover, Len DiNote, and Dr Bernie. Make sure to listen all the way to the end for a surprise appearance! What does the phrase “Attack Life, Not Others” mean to you? Please tell us in the comments.
Ep 200 - Attack Life, Not Others — What It Means To You
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Ep 200 - Attack Life, Not Others — What It Means To You
Nov. 25, 2021

Ep 199 - Purposeful Change is About Love

We often fear change because the outcome may be unknown. However, there's a difference between just change and purposeful change. It's OK to not always be in control of things, especially when the purpose behind change is out of love for another. We can't change: The time period we were born in The location where we were born The parents who we were born from What we can do is purposely change to be a better person — and better for those around us. “You never chang...
Ep 199 - Purposeful Change is About Love
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Ep 199 - Purposeful Change is About Love
Nov. 18, 2021

Ep 198 - Spirit of A Warrior

Dave Pohlmann shares an inspirational story of willpower, grit, love, and support.
Ep 198 - Spirit of A Warrior
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Ep 198 - Spirit of A Warrior
Nov. 11, 2021

Ep 197 - You Need The Crash To Have The Flow

In past episodes, we’ve discussed Bruce Lee’s famous quote pertaining to water. On one show in particular we said: “When in an adversarial situation, take the path of least resistance and ‘flow’ with it.” After contemplating that further, we clarify our thoughts on when you should and when you should not go with the flow. We want balance between the "crash" and the "flow.” Hopefully, we’ll have the right thoughts to think, the right words to speak, the right choices to make, and the right act...
Ep 197 - You Need The Crash To Have The Flow
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Ep 197 - You Need The Crash To Have The Flow
Nov. 5, 2021

Ep 196 - Character Development All Our Lives

Tom Parker is back to continue where he left off from last week discussing character development. What does developing your character mean? Where does one cultivate bravery, integrity, intelligence, and other traits for a winning personality — in today’s difficult world?
Ep 196 - Character Development All Our Lives
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Ep 196 - Character Development All Our Lives
Oct. 28, 2021

Ep 195 - Education builds Intelligence plus Character

Tom Parker takes his expertise from the corporate world managing “soft work” (interpersonal skills) and “harder work” (facts, figures, and research) as he, Tim, and Steve discuss: Education: content, knowledge, intelligence Character: bravery, honesty, faithfulness, integrity Performance consists of not only what we do — but how we do it The true purpose of education is to create intelligence plus character — not just one
Ep 195 - Education builds Intelligence plus Character
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Ep 195 - Education builds Intelligence plus Character
Oct. 21, 2021

Ep 194 - Herbal Remedies for Health

Chelsea from Fuel for Thought Nutrition talks about using food as medicine and the power of nutrients and antioxidants that come from foods such as: Dandelion Cinnamon Mushrooms
Ep 194 - Herbal Remedies for Health
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Ep 194 - Herbal Remedies for Health
Oct. 14, 2021

Ep 193 - Leaders Understand What Sharing Energy Is

Steve Turoscy joins Tim and Steve to talk about group energy. Thoughts discussed include: Share your energy with those around you, because what goes around comes around True leaders don’t need titles or letters behind their name to be a leader Having compassion is a form of sharing your energy
Ep 193 - Leaders Understand What Sharing Energy Is
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Ep 193 - Leaders Understand What Sharing Energy Is
Oct. 7, 2021

Ep 192 - Change Before You Have To

"Get comfortable being uncomfortable." — The US Navy SEALs "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise so I am changing myself." — Rumi "Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything." — George Bernard Shaw
Ep 192 - Change Before You Have To
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Ep 192 - Change Before You Have To
Sept. 30, 2021

Ep 191 - Things We Can Do to Improve Our Energy

Tim Hawk is back to continue where he left off from last week discussing a few things we can do to improve our energy — including exercise and meditation.
Ep 191 - Things We Can Do to Improve Our Energy
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Ep 191 - Things We Can Do to Improve Our Energy
Sept. 23, 2021

Ep 190 - Energy from a Philosophical Perspective

Tim Hawk joins us to discuss energy from his perspective — with a background in philosophy, psychology, and spirituality.
Ep 190 - Energy from a Philosophical Perspective
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Ep 190 - Energy from a Philosophical Perspective
Sept. 16, 2021

Ep 189 - Energy Equals Joy and Happiness

Last week Tim and Steve talked about surrounding yourself with positive people who support and motivate you — while staying away from people who are often negative and are "energy vampires." Other ways to get more energy — and therefore have more joy and happiness in your life include: Put yourself first Volunteer or help others Do more of what you love
Ep 189 - Energy Equals Joy and Happiness
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Ep 189 - Energy Equals Joy and Happiness
Sept. 9, 2021

Ep 188 - How To Get More Energy - Part 1

Energy. It’s elusive. We all need it. What can we do to maintain what we have and get even more of it? Tim and Steve discuss this in Part 1 of a series on energy. energy | (ˈenərjē) (noun) — the strength and vitality required for sustained physical or mental activity
Ep 188 - How To Get More Energy - Part 1
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Ep 188 - How To Get More Energy - Part 1
Sept. 2, 2021

Ep 187 - Get Past Your Obstacles

Many people are feeling disconnected. If this describes you, this episode may help. We talk about finding a way around obstacles and excuses. These obstacles or "walls" that we put up might be labeled as anxiety, depression, fear, confusion, insecurity, self-doubt, or countless other things. Life Coach Dr Bernie joins Tim and Steve talking about busting down these self-imposed walls — or taking the path of least resistance — like water. Either way, you must move forward. "Be w...
Ep 187 - Get Past Your Obstacles
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Ep 187 - Get Past Your Obstacles
Aug. 26, 2021

Ep 186 - We Are What We Consume

Around 75 to 100 tons of food is what each of us consume in our lifetime. We hold on to the nutrients in order to live and continually reshape and rebuild our bodies. How much mental vigor and spiritual energy do we take in? And aside from the quantity — what is the quality of what we’re putting in to our minds and spirits to keep them vital?
Ep 186 - We Are What We Consume
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Ep 186 - We Are What We Consume
Aug. 19, 2021

Ep 185 - Staying Focused, Disciplined, and Moving Forward

Having consistency, intensity, and purpose can be used for good or for evil — as in the yin yang principle. There’s a lot of “noise” in the world right now. Life Coach Dr Bernie says most of it is nonsense. He joins Tim and Steve as they talk about these things and more: Life can be confusing, chaotic, indifferent, and cruel If you allow it — it will swallow you If you stay focused and disciplined — you’ll move forward As long as you have faith and remain a good soul, you a...
Ep 185 - Staying Focused, Disciplined, and Moving Forward
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Ep 185 - Staying Focused, Disciplined, and Moving Forward