Podcast Episodes

July 15, 2022

Ep 232 - Finding Your Authentic Self

On this episode Tom, Tim, and Steve discuss these things and more: A reason, season, and a lifetime The importance of finding your true, authentic self What might be the most engaging aspect of a person The question Tom almos...

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July 7, 2022

Ep 231 - 18 Spiritual Practices for Personal Renewal

Last week Tom, Tim, and Steve discussed the book Sacred Pauses by April Yamasaki. This is Part 2 from that conversation. As Yamasaki says — in a fast-paced world full of distractions, these pauses offer ways to find everyday ...

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June 30, 2022

Ep 230 - Are You Juggling Too Many Balls?

Do you feel stuck in the rat race? Are you unhappily going through the motions in life — feeling unfulfilled, unchallenged, and uninspired? Do you feel as if you're not accomplishing anything unless you're constantly busy? To...

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June 23, 2022

Ep 229 - Girl Power

Anna — a black belt student who has been training for over 20 years — joins Tim and Steve to discuss some of the differences between women and men training in the dojo: There are no weight divisions or gender divisions in lif...

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June 16, 2022

Ep 228 - The Touchstones of Goodness

2 weeks ago Marc, Tim, and Steve discussed Marcus Aurelius and the Touchstones of Goodness. This is Part 2 from that conversation. More on Marcus Aurelius is discussed, and much of it you can read below. We also talk about: T...

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June 9, 2022

Ep 227 - Replace Fear with Hope, Faith, and Love

Tim and Steve talk about the abundance of fear right now. It’s time to replace fear with: Hope Truth Faith Love fearmonger | (ˈfɪərˌmʌŋɡər) (noun) — someone who deliberately spreads fear among people

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June 2, 2022

Ep 226 - Courage, Justice, Temperance, Wisdom

Marc Berardinelli, Tim, and Steve discuss Marcus Aurelius and the Touchstones of Goodness: Many call them “cardinal virtues” — they have been adopted by Christianity, most of the Western world, as well as Buddhism, Hinduism, ...

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May 26, 2022

Ep 225 - Moments of Compassion Require Courage

There must be a strength that comes from your heart to stand up to the world and still do good things Courage is built around Faith Courage and Faith together create Compassion

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May 19, 2022

Ep 224 - The Slow Horse Ultimately Wins

Bob Vidoni joins Tim and Steve to discuss one of his favorite profound excerpts from Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind — the book of teachings by the late Shunryu Suzuki. We should always strive to be the best we can be, however, "th...

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May 12, 2022

Ep 223 - Lose So That You Win

Tim and Steve talk about sparring in the dojo. When people fight in a controlled atmosphere it’s often best to use that experience to grow from — rather than win. It’s about embracing and purposely losing in the short term — ...

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May 5, 2022

Ep 222 - Random Thoughts on Confidence, Fear, and More

Some of the profound thoughts Bernie, Tim, and Steve share: Strive to not take things personally, and not be concerned with being popular Own your thoughts, your words, and your space — stop renting these Confidence must grow...

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April 28, 2022

Ep 221 - It's Good Until It's Not

Bernie, Tim, and Steve talk about: A simple way to take conflict out of discussions How you are responsible for yourself — and that is all How controlling your ego allows you to make good choices

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April 21, 2022

Ep 220 - Joy and Pain are like Sunshine and Rain

Like the song “Joy and Pain” this episode reminds us that life’s beauty often comes after pain. Learn through your mistakes One of the biggest fears people have is failure You've got to experience failure before you can succe...

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April 14, 2022

Ep 219 - Be Real, Set Yourself Free

Pat Shea has more guts than most. His courage to share a social media post is commendable. It might be what you need to hear. It will resonate with a lot of people, but very few would be as brave to admit the things he says. ...

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April 7, 2022

Ep 218 - To Make a Difference You've Got to Be Different

When you want to become great, when you want to make a difference in people's lives, when you want to live a purposeful life — things happen when you want them as much as you want to breathe. Hear the story about the football...

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March 31, 2022

Ep 217 - Let's Create What It Is We DO Want

The way you think, the words you speak, and the actions you take — it's all energy. Focus your energy on what you want, rather than what you're looking to avoid. "I will never attend an anti-war rally. If you have a peace ral...

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March 24, 2022

Ep 216 - Martial Arts Training is Unique and Not For Everyone

Tim and Steve talk about how training in the martial arts is unique to other forms of physical exercise. Some of what's discussed includes: Martial arts training "rewires your brain" No place for electronics — you're "unplugg...

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March 18, 2022

Ep 215 - Teaching, Preaching, Reaching

Steve Fleisher joins Tim and Steve. When people ask exactly what it is he does, he tells them he does a little teaching, a little preaching, and a little reaching. Some of the topics include: “Top of the Main Line to the bott...

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March 10, 2022

Ep 214 - There Are No Shortcuts for Hard Work

Kevin McGee joins Tim and Steve. Some of the topics discussed include: Forget the phrase “It is what it is” — because it is what you make it A warrior shows up and puts in the hard work Become comfortable and confident Readin...

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March 3, 2022

Ep 213 - Community, Camaraderie, and Contribution

If we've said it once, we've said it a thousand times: Life is about choices. You and those around you will live a fuller, richer life, and perhaps discover the reason you're here if you decide to: Become a better person Beco...

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Feb. 24, 2022

Ep 212 - Acknowledge the Distraction, Then Let Go

Do an online search on “how to focus” and you’ll find many “expert” blogs recommending to get rid of distractions. Good luck with that! You’ll NEVER be able to eliminate all distractions life throws at you. Paul Vrabel discus...

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Feb. 17, 2022

Ep 211 - Bruce Lee was NOT a Black Belt?!

<>A means to an end helps achieve what you want, although it may not be valued or important itself. Tim and Steve suggest examining your motives, goals, and priorities in your life. Are you doing something to ultimately achie...

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Feb. 10, 2022

Ep 210 - In a Dark Time, the Eye Begins to See

There is no doubt we are living through a dark time. As Theodore Roethke wrote: “In a dark time, the eye begins to see …” Collectively, our eyes are opening up to the external world. Individually, we are seeing into our subco...

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Feb. 3, 2022

Ep 209 - The Choice is Yours to Make

Tim and Steve share a story with a duck and an eagle. You can be either. The choice is yours. If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar ...

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